Hold’em or Fold’em? Knowing when it’s time to Let Go…

Saturday, Sept. 25th., 2010

I am available this evening between
7pm & 11pm., pacific.

Relationship tip of the Day: Hold’em or Fold’em?
Relationships, romantic or otherwise are all about ‘communication’.
All relationships boil down to communication, without [it] communication, there is no possible way to relate.

The characteristic of relating, one to another, is governed by ‘communication’.

Whether your communication is in the form of being verbally (words) communicated, or as mere thoughts being transmitted by ‘action or inaction’, there is some type of communication, whether ‘right or wrong—negative or positive’ (for the type and style of relationship you’re seeking) that is occurring.

It’s up to you to determine whether or not ‘what is being communicated’ between you & another person, is serving you ‘well’ or not. If you find that your relationship is estranged, strained, difficult, stressful, or negatively challenged, then it’s time to take a serious look at your behavior as well as the behavior of the other person.

If your relationship challenges you, & to a degree that causes you to ‘feel’ bad or diminishes your sense of well being or creates negative emotional energy to prevail—-inhibiting happiness or productivity in other areas of your life, too…then it’s time to look at your relationship, seriously, making a decision of whether or not your relationship is truly worth remaining involved in or if it’s actually more trouble than it’s worth?

Call me & let’s talk about it together.

Blessings,
Daija