Boundaries, Questions & Emotional Truth = A Healthy YOU!

Greetings – Wednesday – May 27th., 2009
This is a hummer of a Hump-day smooth & sensitive ideas are communicated to those whom you love with greater sensitivity than perhaps… ‘Ever’. You make it a point to stop pushing & pulling, and simply asking for what you want. Remember that the people whom we love are not supposed to read our minds—-that is what we have a ‘mouth’ and ‘voice’ for… SPEAKING. Therefore, it’s time to ask for what you want without mincing words. And ladies & gents, if that person whom you’re asking ‘cannot step up to the plate and deliver’… AND YOU CHOOSE to remain in the relationship with them, then that is ‘your issue’ not theirs!

When in a romantic relationship with someone it is vital to set and establish the parameters of what is and is not to be expected in the beginning of the relationship, otherwise, you will definitely deal with and perhaps ‘suffer’ with confused communication, suspect thoughts, and a general ‘not having a clue’ what the other person is doing or not doing. And this is easily remedied by simply ‘putting’ yourself out there in a way that says who you are, what you want, what you need and what you desire, and ladies and gentlemen if you cannot do that initially in a relationship—-then you are not ready to be in a relationship.

Romance is not about ‘the chemistry and sex’ it is all about communication and energy. Therefore, know ahead of time what it is you are seeking and desiring, & what your boundaries are. Period. If you go into a relationship in any other way, I guarantee you that you are headed for trouble, plain and simple. And of course, I am here to assist you, that is what I do, yet, it is always easier ’emotionally so for you’ and for the health of the relationship to simply go about it ‘the right and most wise way’ initially… as doing so will make it a happier, and healthier & even joyful experience for you…and yes, for your partner, too.

Make a wise decision today to ‘do the right thing’ in the beginning, rather than attempting to clean up the mess later. And it takes YOU making the choice to ‘learn’ what to do and not to do, depending on the personality whom you have chosen to ‘fall in love’ with or at least to begin a potential relationship with. Remember ZEBRA’s DON’t CHANGE their STRIPES!! 🙂

I am on today, Wednesday, until 2pm., pacific ONLY.
  No late evening hours.

Enjoy your day, meditate and pray, and write out on a sheet of paper what it is your truly desire for yourself in a mate & in a relationship, and make your list ‘long’.  Then pare down to 10 must haves in both categories. And this will be your check off list when you choose a person to go out with. And when on a date, ask questions that matter to you, and if he/she cannot or won’t answer them, then s/he is not the one for you. And make your questions those that  will tell you what you need to know about them, so you can make the best and most wise decision for you.
Blessings & Love,
Daija ext 32452