Dancing with the Stars: Venus & Mars

Greetings – Tuesday – April 21st., 2009
The glorious effects of Venus & Mars dancing together in harmony create pleasure, passion & playfulness. This week you’re likely to ‘fall’ in love with that special someone, it’s perfectly written in the stars for Venus & Mars…and that means lots of magical times this week in meeting and greeting potential matches and mates. But you’re thinking oh, this is so hard to put myself out there ‘again’?? Well, one thing for sure, s/he isn’t going to saunter up to your door—-but s/he could saunter to your door provided s/he knows you’re out there and desiring to be pursued, & knows where you are!

A few Meeting, Greeting & Dating Tips

1. Push outside your comfort zone, be willing to take a calculated risk & try something new. Smile. Open up, share who you are and be friendly. Take stock of your communication skills, refrain from communicating in a lazy way.

2. Pay direct attention to your new potential partner, Speak directly, kindly, compassionately & Listen! Listening skills are the key to connecting with your partner.

3. Don’t settle for less than what you want. If you do, you are setting yourself up for relationship failure. Be clear about the type of partner you desire, about what you want in a partner & a relationship. So many people begin something with someone, knowing full well that there are things about this individual that are just not ‘quite right’ for you. If it’s not quite right now, it’s not going to get better. You don’t want to change the individual, that is not your responsibility. Choose someone with whom you are more alike than not.

4. Be willing to recognize that there are going to be differences, after all if you want someone to agree with everything you think, say or believe, then you may as well ‘marry yourself’. Be realistic here, there are going to be differences of opinion, and you both don’t have to like Pepperoni Pizza. However, if you’re willing to go into something where the person in question is on the same spectrum within a few degrees of your morals, values and principles then you two can find that place where things can be worked out between you. It’s a matter of compromise. And absolutely not sacrifice.

5. Be in the present– talk about the here and now. Refrain from talking about your past relationships or comparing. No two people and no two relationships are alike.

Good luck!! This is a fun filled fabulous ‘love’ week ahead.

I am on today, Tuesday, until 1pm., pacific & then again this evening between 7pm & 10pm., pacific. 

Enjoy your day—it’s a day of Love!
Love & Blessings,
Daija ext 32452