STOP… In the name of LOVE!!

You’re married. He’s married. Both of you are married to other people. He’s sweet, kind, communicative, and sensitive ‘to your needs’, he truly understands ‘you’… unlike that number crunching potato couch beast you’re married to at home. He’s kind, charming and well…deceptive. Let’s face it ladies, the man whom you’ve fallin’ madly passionately in love with is… another woman’s husband; he is a cheater.

She’s your greatest cheerleader, she tells you how handsome you are, she laughs at your jokes, she has frequent —perhaps even ‘kinky’ sex with you—-making you feel like the man …your wife—early on, or perhaps never, made you feel. Guys, this adoring, complimentary loving, praising and accepting desirous woman, currently sleeping with you is deceptive. She is another man’s wife; she is a cheater.

The worst thing that can happen to two married (to others) people—-entertaining an extra-marital affair is to fall in love with each other. Don’t even think that you can indulge in carnal delight and avoid fighting the ‘Good Fight’. You will fall in love/lust etc., and in that you are guaranteed to pay way more than you want or can afford to pay.Married (to others) people who believe they can enjoy (for longer than a moment) a water-cooler ‘office romance’ or a close personal emotionally or physically intimate relationship with a member of the opposite sex, whether co-worker, colleague, gym buddy, classmates, neighbors, etc., is absolutely fooling themselves and each other. Before you embark on this collision course please remember this one very important fact…
‘The Consequences’.