Patience & Forgiveness Allows ‘Real Love’ in your Life

Greetings – Sunday – May 17th., 2009
Do you feel it today? I feel it. Yeah, it feels so good. It’s Love in its greatest form.
Love is in the air, in the mind, heart & soul—and if you ask for something, you will
get it—that, my friend, is a promise. The issue isn’t about if… but only about when. And it is about ‘WHEN’ —-that becomes our greatest defeat in having the patience to wait on GOD to deliver to us, what we ask Him for.

WE are impatient with GOD. We are impatient with OURSELVES. We are impatient with Others… and the one person whom we are most impatient with is the man or woman whom we love. Friends, I can promise you this, that it is when we begin to ‘exhibit’ patience with ‘that one man or woman’ whom we truly love with all our heart and soul, that they too, in time will eventually ‘see’ & ‘feel’ absolute LOVE

Keep in mind that it’s difficult to begin this process midstream in a relationship after there has already been so much impatience demonstrated as well as fussing and fighting etc., therefore, it’s a wise modification of behavior & demonstration of character that will work best when applied in the beginning of a relationship vs. after there’s too much water under the bridge, and you are both drowning in emotional pain, suffering and hurt. ANd if your relationship is new and you are frustrated and about ready to ‘act out’ … HOLD UP… don’t! Instead ‘ASK for what you want, calmly & directly, kindly and compassionately, rather than ACT OUT of frustration in a way that is demanding, and dictatorial, which will always lead to  the erosion & eventual destruction of your relationship.

Love filters thru the murky fog lifting from early morning dew elevating our spirits above a gorgeous sunrise as we ponder what we feel, think, & discover. Casually over a cup of coffee we offer gratitude to those whom we love in our lives, as well as those who also love us. We trust, need, and desire those in our lives whom we love, and yet, sometimes, our human iniquities cause us to fail in taking care of that precious blessed love that we’ve been so fortunate to know & enjoy— in the manner it deserves or requires. Keep the love fresh, and alive in your life— you will experience happiness by choosing to do so.

When you think about it,  what allows us to ‘love one person over another’? Or what allows us to ‘trust’ one person over another? What allows us to intrinsically know that ‘this particular’ person is the right person for us? What allows us to have and exhibit patience with one particular person, whereas if it were someone else, we would write them off in a heartbeat? What is it within us that allows us to get upset about what someone did, or didn’t do, but also allows us to ‘forgive’ & even ‘forget’ …about the same thing that another person does—-in fact, one person can cause us nearly immeasurable pain and suffering, and another can do same and we will overlook or simply become blind by their infractions, or  trespasses—as if we are totally in denial about ‘whom they are’, really. And for some odd reason that is ok with us… who they are or ‘aren’t…and all their ‘less than’ or negative actions—- we just tolerate. And once again we are in that persons energy—-and we don’t even think about what they did, or how much pain and suffering we went thru. In fact, it is with this one person, we are able to love them unconditionally, regardless what they do, or don’t do…whereas we would find it difficult to forgive lest love anyone else on the planet.

Do you know a person like this? If you do then friends, you’ve expreinced unconditional love in its highest form, second to how God loves us. We may be able to love ‘one person’ like this in our lives, but GOD loves us all like this. For those who believe,  because we live in GRACE, God is blind to our sins. Unconditional authentic love is ‘blind’ to all things that would deny that love. Therefore, more likely than not the person I am describing above is our own children. But we can ‘love’ our spouse & our parents, & our siblings this way too. Unconditionally—- authentically, truly and totally forever, and always. Yes, it is possible—-and the KEY to ‘unconditional love’ is to make sure that FORGIVENESS is the first element of the “love” equation. Once forgiveness is understood & applied to your life and to ALL YOUR RELATIONSHIPS, then your ability to love those near & dear and actually, everyone in your life, will indeed demonstrate a Godly love that is ‘real’… sincere, always and forever.

I am available today, Sunday, between 9am & 2pm., pacific & then
again this evening between 7pm & 10pm., pacific.

Enjoy your day of love & forgiveness… Being patient & Forgiving yourself ‘first’ allows you to begin the process of experiencing ‘Real Love’ in your life.

Real “True Love” does not see human iniquity…
only Purity, enabling absolute, unequivocal, unconditional, authentic… Real True Love!

Blessings & Love,
Daija ext 32452