Reconnect, Try Again… It’s about COMMUNICATION!

Greetings – Thursday – Dec 9th., 2010
I am available today until 1pm., pacific & then again this evening between 6pm & 10pm., pacific.

Hanukkah Ends today. Launching this Mercury Retro Eve—Mercury stations retrograde tomorrow, Friday, Dec 10th., at 5 degrees and 56 minutes of Capricorn. The enticement is there to reconnect with our past and this retrograde is definitely about reconnecting with those boyfriend and girlfriends of the past. You’ll likely experience a continuation of what should have been a routine conversation about your ongoing relationship, that perhaps suddenly or abruptly ended.

Intimate Communications  matter most to you, and then setting aside time to have those intimate discussions ‘regularly’ in order to keep ‘things between you ‘romantic’, ‘HOTT’ and logistics in order’. All you guys out there who would rather ‘act’ than ‘talk’, prepare yourselves. Over the next several weeks until Mercury stations direct on Dec 30th., you’ll be determined & even confronted and challenged by the ‘need’ to open up and talk. Someone important is not about to let up on you either—pushing on you just a tad, or ‘more’, to open up and ‘talk’ in a new and different way than you’re accustomed!

God gave you a mouth, and it’s for more than shoveling in food, or yelling fussing and fighting with the kids, co-workers, or shouting profanities at the tube while watching sporting events. Imagine that?? Actually, I will cut you guys out there, some slack, because you’re just not wired the same way we women are to be emotionally open and honest or be verbally demonstrative.

Therefore, ladies listen up. If you want your guy to open up and talk to & with you, then the first thing you must do is let him know what you want, need and desire, by choosing to be emotionally open and honest with him. If he is bringing you roses, sending you cards, doing little nice things for you, then praise him, let him know that you like what he is doing, and not just once, but every time. Men respond well to praise and direction.  And it’s your job to give him that continued praise, adoration, affection (not to be confused with sex) and direction insofar as what you want. And remember too, ladies, that the more you let a man know he’s wanted, the more he’s going to want you. He’s not the complicated gender—-‘we’ are! 🙂

Blessings,
Daija ext 32452