Relational Integrity

Greetings – Tuesday – October 13th., 2009
I am available today, until 2pm., pacific & then again this
evening between 7pm & 11pm., pacific.

A Leo Moon reawakens our heart to love & romance and ‘all that makes us ‘feel’ good and happy. Surprising Love notes, sweet gestures, winks, smiles, subtle and even over the top flirtations are all a part of today’s mood supporting romance and fun. This is also a day where you will question whether or not s/he truly does love you, or are you just making all this stuff up in your head? The key to that question is to ‘look’ at the entire situation, and not just ‘one part of it’. There are always three sides to a situation. What you think or believe. What the other person thinks and believes and then ‘the truth’.

Today Saturn (structure) forces ‘Venus’ (love) into ‘The Truth’. What you are thinking or believing within has actually nothing to do with the reality of “what is”. Regardless of what you believe or think, ‘things are the way they are’ and you thinking of believing one way or another does not change the facts. Ok. Fair enough. So what are the real facts about your current relationship or state of affairs? Saturn, our planet of structure & routine, will show you today, if you’re willing to look at your situation with objectivity, the real truth. Venus, where our heart or how we ‘feel’ about our situation will try to resist logic, pointing a finger or placing blame on ‘someone’ —-even if that finger you are pointing is at yourself.

STOP!!

There is no room for blame if you have chosen to ‘love’ … first yourself and then the other person. Meaning this, if all of your actions within the parameters of your relationship, regardless the degree of your friendship/relationship have been fair, balanced, honest, and void of any game playing or deception, then you are ‘CLEAR’. However, remember this too, that the Saturn influence will allow you to ‘see’ where you were wrong, and you must look at that squarely and with integrity, in order to move past it to your treasure awaiting you at the end of the rainbow.

Ask yourself this question today: In my current relationship, friendship or partnership, have I been completely honest? Have I acted in anyway whatso ever with an ulterior motive? Have I violated anyone’s privacy? (an example of this is going into someone’s email or desk, or phone; or perhaps following them around discreetly or having them followed, etc., ultimately finding or learning something that you didn’t like) If you have acted in any deceptive manner, then what you are more likely than not experiencing within is ‘guilt’ and the consequences of ‘guilt’ are destructive to yourself esteem, and ultimately to the foundation of the potential longevity that you desire for your relationship. The key note here is to remember that there is a consequence for every action. And it is those consequences that you must take into consideration prior to taking action on any given situation, whether it is ‘love’ or ‘romance’ or deciding to sleep with someone, or violate someone’s privacy, or act in a way that is considered ‘game playing’ etc., it all boils down to ‘deception & consequence’. And often times —-more often than not, your deception is not ‘active’ deception, but mental or emotional deception. An example of this is when you have feelings for someone, and refuse to ‘share them’ based on ‘Fear’ of rejection. HONESTY—- come on people, it is important to be first ‘honest’ with yourself and then with others, in the area of personal relationships of all types. Of course, there is a way to go about being honest about how you feel depending on your circumstance and situation. Therefore, call me and let’s talk about how you can better achieve what it is you are seeking in a close and personal relationship and how you can go about being ’emotionally open and honest’ in order to achieve the best result.

If your birthday is today, October 13th., your cosmic colour is Opal Blue!!
You are a serious, practical, driven builder type personality. Responsibility comes rather easy for you. Learn how to delegate. Remaining lighthearted is important to maintaining balance in your daily life, especially where matters of the heart are concerned, it is viable that you make it your decision to ‘laugh’ more, even at yourself. A gentle soul within needs pampering, so take care of yourself first so that you can better take care of others. To achieve a happier and healthier out look on life decorate your home or office with this colour. The formula to create Opal Blue = Pantone 12-5406

 Enjoy your day and evening. Be honest with yourself about your feelings and especially in your expression of love, towards THE ONE! If you want something, regardless of what it is from that other person, then be sure that ‘That Something’ is also what you are giving.

 Blessings & love, 
Daija ext 32452