Clarification in Communication

Greetings – Wednesday – Dec 23rd., 2009
I am available today until 1pm., pacific & then again this evening
between 7pm & 11pm., pacific

If you desire to be understood, then it’s important that you strive to understand!
Misunderstandings prevail now thru mid January, make yourself ‘clear’ & you’ll avoid the pitfalls of emotional stress related to communications.

So…How goes it today? Experiencing a great ‘Holiday Hump Day’? Yes? All day today deep sentiments & emotions prevail thru all our conversations, especially those romantic conversations where the two of you enjoy & share suggestive playful bantering. Remember that due to upcoming Merc Retro, it’s likely that there will be plenty of delayed or missed communication of all kinds. Missed or failed texts, crazy phone calls, and wire msgs all will be par for the course. Therefore, if something doesn’t feel quite right in your verbal or text exchanges, simply ask for clarification. You may even need to ask “Did you receive my text”? Not that I would always recommend doing that, but even I’ve had failed texts over the past couple days, where I ‘repeated my question’ the following morning to my friends, & hert reply was… ‘did you get my text last nite’…. ?? Then of course, she copied and sent it again, Of course. Clearing everything up, like magic!  Yes, it’s rare that ‘this type of thing’ occurs, but it does. And when it does, can more often times than not create a host of issues.

You take time to realize today what matters most to you that you get done, & you prioritize your day, creating one of the most productive days this week. By midnite tonight, you’re ready for the party to start! You’ve worked hard, taken care of everyone & now it’s time for you! So pour yourself a nice glass of wine, put on some beautiful Christmas music, sit back and look at all your beautiful decorations. Your home is gorgeous. Your family is well provided for, you are truly blessed. Offer gratitude for all your blessings, & enjoy them now thru Friday evening. Don’t worry about whether something is ‘perfect or not’ … because you are the only one who knows whether or not ‘something is missing’ or whether something isn’t quite right. Strive for excellence vs. perfection. You’ll enjoy yourself & those around you so much more. Everything that or everyone who seems naughty rather than nice, or just screwed up, right now is all due to a mere miscommunication of some sort. And if you choose to be direct & humble, you’ll magically experience healing & restored joy, between you. Promise. 🙂 Remember ’tis the season to be ‘Jolly’… definitely not melancholy!

Having trouble with a particular person or situation? Give me a call & together let’s find the perfect solution. 🙂

Have a wonderful HOLIDAY!!

Aloha blessings & love,
Daija ext 32452