Match Maker – Heart Breaker

Greetings – Thursday – May 13th., 2010
I am available today until 2pm., pacific & then again this evening
between 7pm & 10pm., pacific.
One of those black & white days where yes is absolutely, YES & NO means… Never! Be cautious today about all your investments. Whether it’s financial, as in the stock market, business, or property; or personal investments, such as in relationships, or your personal time, effort or energy. I am not suggesting that you refrain from investing, but simply take the necessary precaution enabling a ‘Great Return’ vs. ‘no’ return. 

In fact, in my vocabulary there is only one kind of investment; one that guarantees a great return. Period.

It’s important to take this investment theory a bit further. In my practice I tend to focus primarily on relationships of all types, personal, business & romantic. So today, let’s focus on investments relative to romantic relationships, as it pertains to the dating scene.

When you consider someone to entertain on a ‘first date’, you are investing your time, energy & effort in making a first impression that will (if you find it to be a pleasing experience) promote a return on your investment; a second date. Hence, all the communication occurring prior to that “first date” is very important, & more about the first impression that is exchanged during the introductory phase.

Yet, for many of you, as you report to me, most all the time spent in communication leading up to that first date, is actually wasted by choosing to avoid topics of conversation & sensitive subjects, that could be mutually discussed & determined (or not) to be deal makers or breakers, allowing you to move on—quickly, prior to wasting your time on a first date that could lead to many ‘awful’ dates thereafter, that you don’t want or won’t want in the long term.  Lay your cards on the table initially. Don’t fear being REAL… or honest regarding your morals, values & principles, what you want, don’t want, need, & desire & about your intent. And ask for same in return. If the person can’t, or won’t or refuses to engage, then you have your answer! NEXT!!

It’s important to initially discuss things that matter most to you, that are important to you. Being brave & doing so will save you a lot of time, effort & energy & spare you emotional heartache, on the back end. I promise you, that if in fact ‘your pre-first date’ introduction ‘communication time’ is utilized in a way that will guarantee a great first date, it will promote an even better, second date. And even a continued relationship in the ‘right direction’ vs. the proverbial downward death spiral after the 2nd or 3rd date, plus. Yet, it’s only going to happen for you, when that pre-first-date communication time is used effectively.

Call me today, let’s talk about how you go thru the introductory phase of dating. Together let’s talk about your style & how to make your experience so much better, profitable & promising.

Blessings,
Daija ext 32452