A Time To Heal Aug-10-2010

Greetings – Tuesday – August 10th, 2010
I am available today until 3pm., pacific, Only.
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Today’s transits encompassing the Sun, (power) Moon, (emotion) Jupiter (abundance) & Pluto (change) arouse your need to be ‘right’ or ‘rigid’ in a way that dismisses any possible flexible solution to your challenge. You want what you want, and you want it now. And if you can’t have “it”, then you don’t want anything at all. Throwing yourself into an internal emotional tantrum will guarantee one thing, & that is, eventually more of what you don’t want, need & desire. Regardless what you may ‘believe’ that you are hearing yourself ‘say’, today—please make it a point to write it down somewhere, perhaps in a daily journal. Because tomorrow or at least by the weekend, you’re going to change you mind, wanting something different & perhaps so much more.

When in the midst of emotional pain, suffering & loss, we are all our own worst enemy in self defeating thoughts, words, deeds & tendencies. There is little & possibly no one who can console us. We become firm in our belief that by holding onto our rigid thoughts, we can protect ourselves. Nice thought for awhile, hiding in your self contained cocoon where nothing & no one can ‘get you’. Understandable, from a human emotional standpoint.  However, the guarantee is this, eventually you will come out, if not at one swift turn, at least little by little, & you will begin to inch yourself back into your normal everyday life, interacting with friends, associates & society. AND Unless you’ve worked thru the burdensome issues that created your fear & rigidity, then you will more likely than not, repeat the process. Only next time, your burden won’t be easier, or lighter, but more likely than not, much worse & heavier.

Healing is something that we all need when in the midst of burden, grief & despair. And there is one way to begin the process of healing. That is to ‘feel’ the pain, recognizing that you are accountable & responsible for your own happiness by the choices you create and the decisions you make regarding those choices. S/he did not cause you the pain, you chose to partner with them, therefore you are responsible. There are no victims in a world where we have freedom of choice. It is only then that you will be able to ‘deal’ with the emotional pain and suffering in a positive way, allowing yourself to become whole again. And it’s not about what ‘that other person’ does or doesn’t do—-but all about what you decide & choose to do for yourself. Change your perspective & you change your life.  

Call me, Let’s talk about you.

Blessings,
Daija ext 32452