The LD Relationship

Greetings – Tuesday – Sept 14th., 2010
I am available today until 3pm., pacific & then again this evening between 7pm & 10pm., pacific.

Surprisingly, (Uranus) the heavy hitter in today’s cosmic influence raises the stakes for a star studded progressive planetary performance, allowing you to know that you’ll ‘go the distance’ doing whatever it takes to achieve your goals. Regardless what your goals are, or the specific area of your life. Whether personally, professionally, or romantically, you won’t stop till you’re there & nothing’s gonna stop you. Period!

Well alrighty then… the gates are open, you’re challenged, you’ve got that competitive edge, the carrot is dangling, the race has begun!  But wait… does your POA (plan of action) need tweaking? All players in alignment, yet, a tad bit of refining &/or readjusting is in order to ensure a smooth transition, guaranteeing success. After all, who plays to lose?

Relationally speaking, the prevailing cosmic energy now is centered around the emotional conflict & creative plans, logistically associated with long distance relationships. How do you make a Long Distance relationship work, without both parties emotionally falling apart?

Truly, this is not an easy task, and I do not necessarily advocate LD relationships. However, they do happen & they do & can work, provided both people are willing to ‘give’ unto the other in a manner that will allow each other to feel secure & truly loved during the separation. Both parties must be willing & able to offer the other, words of affirmation, & quality time shared together in at least daily wire communication, until the physical gap can be closed.

Failure to give unto the other in a way that provides emotional/intellectual support will inevitably create undue stress & emotional feelings of doubt & despair, that will become a destructive force within the emotional foundation of the romantic relationship. Regardless, how much you may think and believe that ‘the other person’ should know that you love & care for them. Telling & showing the person whom you love—in their love language —- makes all the difference in how close you become & remain,  regardless how far apart you are geographically. Long distance relationships are never easy, they are at best quite difficult, but not impossible so long as there is communication, a common goal & a future date to satisfy the geo-gap, & eventually being together. Enjoy!

Aloha Blessings,
Daija ext 32452