The Crazy Cycle: Does your Relationship look like this?

See the diagram below.
Is your relationship in this Crazy Cycle? If so, you know you gotta break this cycle as fast as you can… but you’re probably thinking, I know, I want to break this craziness, but HOW??

It’s going to take ‘WORK’, real committed effort from both parties. Deal?? Gentlemen… Eve is at home in your Garden of Eden, and she’s not an ornament to give the garden curb appeal. She requires Loving Attention even when you don’t feel like being LOVING or TALKING. Loving your Eve, means opening up and talking more, ‘letting her into your life’… ‘THE DETAILS’ of your daily life. I know you don’t wanna ‘talk’ and give details, yet, you do want respect and bedroom gymnastics. Therefore Gentlemen, it’s your choice.

Ladies, you once looked up to your man. In the beginning, your respect and admiration of him was more likely than not, second to God, in your eyes. That is the way it is designed to be. And it’s apparent that you ‘love’ your man, otherwise you would not be with him. Therefore, take a moment when he comes home tonight to tell him how awesome he is, and how proud you are to be his wife, and thank him for even those kind, small insignificant things he does, that you like.

When your man is SHOWING you his unconditional love, by taking time to open up and listen, to truly hear you, and he makes a conscious effort of talking more, letting you in, making you and your needs, wants and desires his priority, you’re happy!! I know because I am a woman!!

Therefore, the most important thing you can give him other than ‘SEX’ is RESPECT. Waste no time letting him know he is your hero and telling & showing him with words of affirmation, physical touch—as in ‘touchy-feely’ attentive affection, and of course, a dance or two at the Mattress Ball… just how much he means to you. Of course, you cannot fix the crazy cycle in one evening, but it’s a start, and it can be a new beginning, for you both, and a new relationship to explore!