Time To Talk

Greetings – Monday – Sept 13th., 2010

I am available this evening, Monday evening, between 6pm & 11pm., pacific.

Mercury direct in Virgo yesterday, created a willingness to be more open, available, engaging in heartfelt emotions & perhaps passionate secrets that need expression, exposure. Today & this week you’ll likely have the desire to TALK more openly about all that is bothering you, or more about your relationship & what it means to you. What you truly want, need and desire, each from the other…surfaces, you have no other option than to share. It’s one of those TIMES to Talk.

Relationship Tip of the Day:Baby… we need to talk?
To a guy, those are words they never want to hear, & truly freaks them out! Yet, ‘those talks’ are important, and no doubt you will (if you haven’t already) need to have one soon. Rather than ‘warning’ him, by telling him that it’s time to talk…make his favorite dinner or go to a restaurant that you both like. During dinner begin with ‘I’ statements vs. ‘You’ statements, to launch into The Talk easily and without him feeling that you are being critical of him or that he is or has the problem.

Having ‘you talk’ this way will allow him to hear you—-rather than tune you out. Men are not difficult, or even complex, they are linear thinkers who treat us & behave
the way we allow them to behave.

Therefore, a practical, methodical approach on your part in bringing issues to the table, that are upsetting to you, or compromising the harmony of your relationship—-it’s guaranteed that by showing him that you love him by creating the right environment, and adding a dash of your sweetness, & weaving in the issues that are bothering you, during the general conversation, he’ll be more likely to be emotionally open, receptive and positively responsive to you. Your ‘peace & productivity’ producing “Time to Talk’ period, will be fruitful.

Talk with you tonight.
Aloha Blessings,
Daija ext 32452