Your Approach, Matters Most

Greetings – Tuesday – May 18th., 2010
I am available today until 2pm., pacific & then again this evening
between 7pm & 10pm., pacific.
The cosmic configuration of Venus & Saturn continues today, resulting in what could be difficult communication—-IF the approach you choose to use to communicate with that other person is less than kind, wise, &/or constructive.

Although there are particular areas within every relationship that rub people raw, one way or another; discussing issues relative to those specific sensitive areas DOES NOT always need to be difficult.

In many relationships this particular Venus/Saturn transit could feel similar to hitting a brick wall, while attempting to talk about particular issues with your partner. Money, Sex, Children, Organization, Household chores, Time Mgmt., Career, Job or lack thereof—all of these areas, for many, are sensitive topics of conversation, regardless of what day you choose to open them up for discussion.

Albeit, these are absolutely topics that must be discussed with your spouse, partner, boy/girlfriend, & dealt with accordingly—-regardless of what the cosmos is doing on any given day, even though you know by opening up a discussion on these subjects will inevitably lead to an argument.

But must discussing these topics always lead to an argument?

Ok, so when is the appropriate time? NOW! Yes, now. Grant it, sometimes, due to prevailing circumstances, to wait may be better. Yet, often times, when it comes to Money, Children & Logistics, you will not have the luxury of waiting for a more appropriate time—-bc waiting could actually perpetuate the problems. Talking about it “Now” is best, & it’s all about your approach. Call me, I can help you find the right communication solution for your particular partnership personality & circumstance. There is no reason to wait until tomorrow to ‘fix’ things, when you can do so today, & move them out of your way, & enjoy your day! 

Let’s talk about what bothering you, so you can return to enjoying your family, friends, & all your relationships.

Have fun!
Aloha Blessings,
Daija ext 32452