Relational Rules Rock

Greetings – Saturday, May 29th., 2010 – Establishing the Rules
I am available today only until 3pm., pacific.
No late evening hours.

Saturn turns direct this weekend allowing us to better establish order in areas of our lives that may seem difficult, or lacking direction in some specific way. Today, the Saturn (structure) & Venus (love) influence, provide us opportunity to implement a new or perhaps better structure in how we relate in a romance or relationship. Use this elemental Venus inspiring energy to make some necessary changes in how you go about dating & mating, choosing a partner & creating your personal relationship rules.

We all have our own set of partner & relationship rules. These are the criteria we use to choose a partner – weeding out the bad from the good, according to our individual relational perspective. Once we decide on a particular person or a relationship, we hold our partners & the relationship to a specific standard—that will either serve us ‘or’ Not! When things are smooth sailing—-initially —-while everyone is putting their best foot forward we tend to feel happy, delighted, & positive about the choice we made to date this particular person. However, once we begin to see the rules that ‘we have established’ begin to break down—-whether right, wrong or otherwise, we begin to experience doubt & despair. What generally follows the breakdown is a break up.

Ask yourself today, what are your relationship rules? How are they working out for you? Are you with the partner of your dreams? Are you with the man/woman whom you can’t live without? Or are you merely settling? Perhaps you are simply just considering the idea of dating again, preparing your list of partnership/relationship criteria.

Key points to remember that when creating your criteria are to choose someone to be in relationship with who makes you smile, allows you to feel good about yourself, adds joy to your life, & treats you with respect, kindness, compassion & consideration.

Whom are you most compatible with? What specific traits do you require in a mate? How can you learn to be more emotionally open & honest? Whether you are currently in a relationship or yet to meet your special someone, it’s time to set the standard, & do so in a way that will foster a happy, healthy relationship that is right for you, ‘both’.

Love feels good…
…It doesn’t Hurt!

Call me today, together lets talk about & tweak your relationship rules to ‘fit’ who you are,
what you want, need & desire that will ultimately create the fairytale fantasy turned ‘reality’ relationship of your dreams.

Aloha Blessings,
Daija ext 32452