Relationally Mature or ‘Not’?

Greetings – Thursday – January 28th., 2010
I am available today until 2pm., pacific & then again this evening
between 7pm & 10pm., pacific.
What a week… yeah? Today we get a bit of a cosmic reprieve allowing us to ‘feel & be a bit more independent’ without ruffling anyone’s feathers. There are few disturbances that will pull the rug from beneath our feet, allowing us the ability to get a lot done, tuning into our own needs, addressing what is truly important to us.

This evening, we may encounter relational immaturity. Those of you who are ‘relationally mature’ may have difficulty perceiving your relationally immature partner, friend, spouse. And those of you who are ‘relationally immature’ may have difficulty feeling valued by your partner, friend, or spouse.

Uranus stirs in the background today, coming into full view this evening. Oh what a tricky little planetary influence who just loves to jump into the equation every now & again creating a platform for ‘reform’, albeit more often times than not, IMPULSIVE ACTIONS bring about ‘immediate change’ or shoot from the hip, sudden decisions. I strongly, “STRONGLY” recommend that you make no decisions regarding a partner, spouse or friend this evening. Call me, let’s talk about what you’re thinking, considering or desiring to do. It’s all about doing ‘what you want to do’ in the right & most wise way that is beneficial for all involved.

Just go with the flow & think before you act, or disturb the status quo. The last thing you want, need or desire is to create more problems for yourself, that will eventually backfire on you creating a host of icky things to deal with that could cost you—& cost you more than you’re willing to pay.

Whether you are the emotionally or relationally mature party, or the emotionally immature party—-and most of you may believe that you are one or the other, only to learn that you are ‘the opposite’. Which ever you are, you are in the right place & exactly where you’re supposed to be. We are all ‘always learning’, therefore, refrain from beating yourself up for ‘where you fall in the spectrum’ of relationally or emotionally mature or immature, but do look at ‘where you are honestly’, accepting full responsibility & accountability for ‘where you are’ & how you are interacting within the parameters of your given relationship. Doing so will only enhance your ability to change things from an undesirable state of affairs, to a more healthy, happy & desirable place where you & your partner will enjoy each other, by simply accepting ‘where you are’ and then dealing with it, effectively.

Enjoy your day, and evening.

Blessings,
Daija ext 32452