*Please* Only Real Men Need Apply!

Greetings – Wednesday – January 6th., 2010
I am available today until 3pm., pacific time, only. No late evening hours.
Today we’re pondering this, that and the other. Especially about what we truly want in our lives, now & as we move into the future. The Mars-Pluto influence today arouses our deep secret desires to seek partnership. We desire someone to ‘be there for us’, & not in just one way or to satisfy one need. Today you may be aching to rekindle a romance from your past, or to ‘get that lovin’ feeling’ back that you once had with your current partner. One way or another, you want more love today, & you want to ‘love’ someone special today. Because it’s a ‘Mars’ (male/action) type of day, let’s look at what type ‘man’ the girls are truly seeking?

What kind of man do women truly want, need & desire, as a boyfriend, life partner, husband? Of course, we all have different physical preferences, & that special *chemistry* does play a role in the actual ‘dating & mating’ ideals of why we fall in love with this one, vs. that one. Yet, in the midst of those personal variables, there is a golden thread of commonality among the general consensus of what we women believe represents a ‘Real Man’…the man we truly desire as our betrothed. The unmentioned ‘keyword’ here is RESPONSIBILITY.

We women desire a man who is ‘responsible’. A responsible man, who knows what his duties are as a man, and accepts his responsibility. A real man is someone who doesn’t complain about his duties or responsibilities to himself or his family, nor does he dismiss them, or whine or cry about them, regardless how boring, difficult, or horrid they may be. He does what he must do & he does it with a good attitude. He accepts the fact that he’s made the choices he’s made & the consequences of those choices. He handles the tough things in life with grace & fortitude; he does not crumble under the load, but looks at what it is, & how the best way to handle it, that is beneficial for all concerned, & carries on. A real man deals with the tough stuff, effectively. All the while loving you in the process, tenderly, joyfully, & never taking out his frustrations on you, his beautiful lover, mate, partner in life, wife. A real man may never carry a gun, or hunt, drive power cars, or lift 300 pounds! But he will love you, protect you, take care of you, & carry you thru the tough times, in life, wiping your tears, allowing you to lean on him, no matter what.

And that is what all of us ‘girls’ truly desire as our lover, life partner, & husband…
…we want a Real Man!

He’s out there ladies, and it’s up to you to find him. And yeah, a real man will show emotion, too… but not at the drop of a hat, but if he knows he’s behaved in a way that could cause him to lose the best thing he’s ever had—- YOU! A real man, won’t let go of ANYTHING he loves, because he knows how to ‘KEEP’ the best things in his life, his!!

And guys, you know what I’m talking about, is the truth!! 🙂

Enjoy your day and evening!
Blessings & love,
Daija ext 32452