No Pity Parties Please!!

Greetings – Thursday – January 21st., 2010
I am available today until 2:30pm., pacific & then again this evening
between 7pm & 10pm., pacific.
Ooh it’s a lunar trine to Mars today creating a magical day for ironing out relationship wrinkles. No starch needed, remain ‘flexible’ please, so use a light steam, please! From this evening fwd. & into the weekend, you could be on your way to at least semi-smooth sailing again… take a deep breath, Ooh feels so good, to clear the air getting things back to that oh so special comfort zone where ‘real love’ comes thru loud & clear. I Like it! And you will too!

Although, this particular time does bring about ‘internal feelings of despair’. Perhaps you’re questioning things about yourself, ‘What is wrong with me’? Well, before you go and judge yourself too critically, think about whether or not it’s warranted. If you have acted selfishly, or have been unreasonably demanding, or behaved in a way that is insensitive or unjust, then ok, time to regroup & come to terms, and offer an apology, talking about how to ‘make things better’, fostering harmony once again. But do be honest with yourself vs. resorting to a pity party of ‘I’m not good enough’ or something is wrong with me because ‘s/he is not with me’ but with ‘her/him’. WRONG… this is absolutely ‘wrong thinking’ and is quite destructive thinking that will filter down into other areas of your life, creating havoc & dissonance.

Time to look at yourself, ‘yes’, but in a proactive way, that says YES, I did ‘do this’ and need to apologize, or no I didn’t do anything that I need to apologize for, but what i am thinking, believing and feeling now & about myself is more emotionally tied to my feelings of ‘rejection’.  Call me & together we’ll talk about this in a constructive way that will bring about a better understanding of what you’re feeling & dealing with, allowing you to change your mind, and your belief, enabling growth, & healing.

Prepare for the weekend now—-begin the healing process so that you’re better able to experience joy, ‘now’!

Aloha love & blessings,
Daija ext 32452