The Right Kind OF Communication… is what truly MATTERS!

Greetings – Wednesday – October 21st., 2009
Do you love him/her enough to let them go? When you know that something isn’t quite right, do you look at this situation, objectively? Or do you begin to start pushing and pulling on your partner to do, act, or behave in a way that you think he or she should,  in order to make you happy? Or do you perhaps use the right and just way to communicate what it is ‘that you want’ need and desire in order to ‘let the other person’ know what it is your want, so that they are able to evaluate how important it is to modify their behaviors in order to give you whatever it is that you need, want and desire? Ask for what you want. Don’t tell the other person what to do. By choosing to ask, gives the other person the opportunity to give by making a conscious choice to do so, it is their idea to ‘give it’…change & modify their behaviors accordingly in order to ‘GIVE to you, the person whom they love’ whatever it is that you want. Doing so because ‘THEY LOVE YOU’ & you are important to them. Period.

This is an emotionally oriented day where you will fuel the fire and you’ll get the answers you’re seeking. Just make sure that you do it in the right way. And that you are prepared to hear the truth. Although preparing to hear the truth is not always easy, it is important to know and hear the truth enabling you to make the decisions you need to make in order to either deal with whatever it is that you are dealing with or to effectively move on. And move on in a healthy and healing way where you will avoid carrying ‘these burdens’ that you are dealing with in this relationship onto your next one. Call me today. let’s talk about this together, it’s important to look at what you are doing as well as how the person in question is behaving. It takes ‘two to Tango’. 🙂

If your birthday is today, October 21st. , your cosmic colour is Chintz Rose!! You are inspiring, verbal and simply musical, lyrical and entertaining. Avoid thinking too much, and choose to ‘do or act’ more spontaneously. It’s vital that you are in a good place and feel good about the beauty around around you. Clarity is yours when you know you’re loved, needed and desired.  Bring more balance and harmony in your life by decorating your home or office with this delightful colour. The formula to create CHINTZ ROSE = Pantone 13-1408

Enjoy your day remembering that all relationships are about the ‘right kind’ of communication shared.

Blessings,
Daija ext 32452