What is going on with him? Where is she coming from? What’s up with this?

Greetings – Friday – March 27th., 2009
Today we continue to feel the fiery effects of an Aries Moon, motivating us to take action in our lives where we need it most. There are few people who can resist this area of influence—in some particular area of their lives, so you’re likely to notice behavioral changes in those closest, nearest & dearest. Rather than be alarmed, or go to emotional extremes, simply apply logic & practical application to the behavior being demonstrated.

Oftentimes when we notice someone close to us making changes in their actions, or perhaps modifying their behaviors even to a slight degree, it can affect us emotionally, in one way or to one extreme or another. We are in tune with this person close to us and we ‘notice’ & equate the change sometimes as threatening, or fear that ‘their change’ will adversely affect our current relationship, with them in some significant way.

Relationships that are close enough where two people depend on a particular behavioral ‘action or response’ as the norm—-needs to be assessed as to ‘whether that ‘normal’ action or response is healthy or unhealthy, &/or conducive to the balance and harmony of your existing relationship. A way to assess the ‘old’ action or behavior that is being modified as to whether the new replacement behavior is something better or not, is to look at the overall communication that is visible and being exhibited due to the modified behavior. If the behavior is conducive to a healthier, more rewarding balanced communication between you and your partner, then you will see that ‘that is true’ by virtue of the over all fruits that are produced by the new modified behavior or response.

The key is to look directly at the change in behavior asking yoruself
what it is you are feeling about this specific behavior or ‘active’
change they are presenting. If the behavior modification creates
good feelings, allowing you to feel good, happy, loved, nurtured,
validated, appreciated, respected, needed, and desired, in
this person’s presence, then enjoy it, disallowing any
insecurities creep in that would sabotage this wonderful
new change.

If the behavior change creates havoc in your relationship or causes
you to feel bad, sad, or unhappy, dismissed or disrespected, then, there is definitely something wrong, or just not quite right, therefore, requiring additional assessment & further investigation via communication & perhaps
professional intervention in order to identify exactly what is going on.

Let’s talk about what you are noticing in your relationship, today.
I am on today, Friday, until 1pm., pacific, & then again this evening
between 7pm & 10pm., pacific. Enjoy your TGIF…and weekend ahead!
Love, Daija ext 32452