A SELF Awareness Saturday

Remember the last time you admired someone from afar? That’s right, suddenly time stops, and so does everyone else in the room except for you, and whom you’re eyes and attention is fixated on, of course. Swooshed away into dreamy fantasy land, …absolutely no warning was given… to either of you. There you are working the room at a party and you’re taken by the sight of a dashingly handsome charming man brilliantly standing nodding, chuckling and every now and again cautiously whispering to someone near him. . . or perhaps you see the most beautiful woman casually chatting away, sipping champagne, she’s none to the wiser that she is being feasted upon by your intellectual fantasy driven gaze… or that he has captured your most sought after attention … you’re absolutely certain that s/he is ‘the one’ … you know THE ONE for you.

As you begin to truly envision ‘this man’ or ‘that woman’ in your life, as your significant other, romantic partner, or husband and wife—–something else occurs in the midst of your attention being catapulted on to these individuals as you are ‘caught off guard’ engrossed in visual stimulation, nothing else in the world seems to matter—-there is nothing else that you are aware of that is wrong, right or otherwise, because your attention is focused, magically you’re hypnotized. That’s right, you’re actually being seduced by Visual Hypnotic Suggestion based on the imago of ‘what you believe to be’ your perfect Love.

Okay fabulous!! So how can you use this oh so sultry suggestive visually stimulating influence in attracting your perfect love? First begin by making a mental note of everything that your five senses has experienced in becoming aware of this individual. Then ask yourself the below questions after you’ve recorded all that you became aware of while experiencing the presence or existence of this particular individual.

1. How does his/her appearance make me feel? Describe and record your answer in detail for yourself, in journal format, as you will keep this as a tool, or reference guide of what you like and don’t like when understanding ‘exactly who’ truly is your true twin flame and/or soul mate. Focusing in on this descriptive area of personality will  enable you to manifest your one true Love.

2. What about his/her appearance stimulates me, visually?

     A. Is it his/her eyes, facial shape, nose, ears, head, hair, height, body size, style, or shape?

     B.Or could it be how they are interacting at the moment? Mentally record their communication style,  voice tone, or pitch or inflection, if you can hear them. Also, notice their posture, are they leaning into the other person whom they are speaking, or away from. Also, record their gesticulations during conversation. For example, they are animated engaging their arms, hands, and entire body including facial expressions while interacting? Are they expressively engaged and/or are they just casually conversing with others? Take time to record this information. Doing so will help you better understand why you are attracted to particular communication traits—or particularly to this individual.

     C. Do I like how s/he is dressed?
        1. Identify what you like about this person’s clothing and attire:
Is it casual, trendy, sophisticated, traditional, sloppy, neat, perfect, colorful, cheerful, dark, light, sassy, sweet, demure, comfortable, classy, stylish, simple, ‘like you’ or ‘unlike you’ … perfect for the occasion, not up to par for the occasion, over dressed, or under-dressed…

     D. Are you completely turned on or turned off by how this person presents themselves and/or wears his/her clothing?  Using adjectives, explain in detail describing your feelings about how this individual appears to you, in both a positive and negative way.

     E. You walked by close enough to feel their energy, and experience their scent. How did his/her energy feel to you. Was it unremarkable? Did you notice their special scent or a pleasing or displeasing aroma as you walked into their energy field? List and describe the sensual, sexual, or seductive or calming sensations that this person’s energy and scent was sending you. Was the vibration their energy was emitting, Cold, Warm, ‘HOT’ enticing, inviting, dismissive, combative, intrusive, elusive, arrogant, passionate, wild, sensationally divine, somber, sullen, secretive?  Describe in detail all that you felt radiating from this individual.

Now that you have summed up what you notice intrinsically about another individual who strikes your fancy—-you’ll begin to see ‘more of this type and style’ of individual during your daily interactions with others whom you meet, even if only these interactions are casual experiences; you are becoming more alert and aware.

These people who attract us by ‘HOLDING’ our individual attention to a particular personality trait or by ‘something’ they are doing, wearing, talking about, demonstrating, etc., is the most tried and true personal method of beginning to better understand more about YOURSELF and about what you like, want, need and desire in choosing another human being as your partner in life. OR as I like to believe manifesting your true LOVE in this LIFE!~

Begin a new journal when you begin a new love. You’ll be astonished next month and the month after when you go back and read, just how far you’ve come—and how much fun you’ve had. It’s vitally important remembering those subtle nuances of first born romance and the sweetness of romantic love—–and how those initial precious moments of savory romantic love will aid you in the continued process after the honeymoon has passed, and domesticity sets in and daily operations and logistics is all that perhaps matter’s to “THEM”…(meaning the unromantic partner of your duo) so when choosing a forever partner, remember that this person is indeed another human being and trace back to your beginning, revisit your love journal and suddenly your long partnership gets a romance based ‘face lift’ because all that you initially fell in love with, truly is still there… laying dormant perhaps, and just a little tweaking is needed to readjust and realign the wheels, front and rear. . .tuning ‘them up’ and igniting that old familiar flame that is still under that handsome or beautiful veneer… because you were quite clear that what this person had that drew you so near, was everything that enables a ‘TRULY ROMANTIC’ and SPIRITUALLY INSPIRED AUTHENTIC & FOREVER REAL LOVE AFFAIR!~