Internet Dating Venues and Planetary Influences

I am not surprised to learn that most experiences on match.com and eharmony.com are less than favorable. More oftentimes than not, by the time my clients get to me, they have endured numerous horror stories. After personal indepth study of “the personals” both on and off the net, for more than twenty years now, I have found that many of these less than favorable situations could have been avoided. Prospective dating candidates armed and aware, can achieve great results by paying attention to absolute rules, boundaries, and principles in discerning behavior patterns and personality types, and of course ASKING QUESTIONS! Discernment of all that is being communicated in the emails and phone calls during the initial contact and personal connection is essential.

“It is vital that whether you are a man or woman, that your profile states exactly what you want, need, and desire.”

Hense, my reason for suggesting that if you are entertaining the idea of using an internet dating service, it’s vital that you contact someone who has studied the internet personals, in depth, who can assist you during the initial profiling and contact stage. Asking ‘the right’ questions will foster a happier and more productive, actually enjoyable dating experience. By employing someone with professional expertise in areas of behavior and personality profiling, you will allow an encounter with fewer challenges, actually promoting a more sound and practical ‘online’ dating experience. The choices that you make regarding the person whom you choose to share your time with will make all the difference in the world with regard to how happy or unhappy your experience will be.

It is vital that whether you are a man or woman, that your profile states exactly what you want, need, and desire, and if you are writing your own profile it is imperative that you are honest with yourself first, and then state your desires in your narrative so that it is clear about ‘who’ you are and ‘what you want, need, and desire’ is absolutely ‘clear’ as well. There is a tried and true method and very strict rules about placing your profile and narrative online. And it is a wise man or woman who knows exactly who ‘YOU ARE’ and ‘WHAT YOU ARE SEEKING in a mate’ that will enable you to offer a concise and direct “self-PROFILING” in a way that will deliver the best result.

Many of the people whom I have initially assisted in placing their profile on a dating service, or re-started on Match or Eharmony have found that this time around, with my professional assistance has sincerely enjoyed themselves so much more. And they can only attribute their success by better self-profilling and more concise interactions upon initial communication with a prospective partner. And of course, it makes no sense to sign up for something, pay for it, and then not use it to its full capacity and for your best benefit.

Jumping on a dating service or listing yourself in a personal ad without the proper education in this area is truly a dangerous idea. In my practice I see so many unhappy people — and come on people, this is suposed to be FUN! Of course, I am truly sorry for any initial pain and suffering, however, you can put that behind you by contracting me, or someone well versed and educated in online dating who can truly be invaluable to a successful and enlightenting process and experience that will eventually provide much growth in areas of meeting and greeting and of cøurse, overall future dating success.

The Role of Psychology, Astrology, & Spiritual Principals…

I use Psychology, Astrology and Spiritual principals based on scripture in my practice, with a modern day practical approach to romantic relationship. I use Psychology to explore the male and female behavior patterns associated with how ‘THEY’ approach romance and committment based on their gender specific primal nature; using Astrology I focus on the ‘nature’ of their personality based on the placement of their SUN (the date of birth) and MOON (date and year of birth), as well as their individual history of past relationships and how ‘those relationships’ may be affecting their present behaviors in and around their current relationship.

Unfortuately, neither Astrology nor any other discipline, metaphysical or otherwise, can tell you exactly what is going to happen — as you know, I’m sure; only GOD can do that. And NOT EVEN GOD, gets in the way of FREEWILL. However, it’s important that we know how Psychology, Astrology, and Spirituality does provide practical, logical application and assistance in discerning whether something is right or at least right for us.

What Astrology can do is simply this, provide a time-line of possible events that more probable than not will occur based on planetary archetype and actual personalities, behaviors, and planetary patterns, along with the phases of the moon relative to those planetary influences on earth. Similar to this scientific fact, for example: The MOON controls the “rolling in and out”, the ebb and flow — if you will, of the tides — and of course, the tides are WATER. Our bodies are made up of 92% water. Therefore, we too, are influenced by the moon and the planetary influences based on the physics of the actual energy pull between the solar system and the earth; and we are as human beings, a physical energy on this planet Earth.

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